What To Do If You Found Out That Your Husband Is Sigma Male

If you found out that your husband was a Sigma Male, I'm sure you're feeling confused about what to do.

Don't worry, I'm here to help. A Sigma Male is the name for men who are typically ignored or overlooked by society because they are not seen as leaders or authorities in any way. They could be weak, unsuccessful, unattractive, or clumsy... But these traits don't make them definitively "bad". All it means is that society doesn't usually associate them with being successful at anything.

There's a whole range of Sigma Males, from very mild cases to severe ones. Some people think they're not good enough to matter... But the fact of the matter is, a lot of Sigma Males have a set of characteristics that allow them to do some pretty wonderful things.

Basically, it's nothing to be ashamed about. If you have a Sigma Male in your life who is equaling or exceeding all his peers in terms of development and growth, then he must be doing something right (I know that may sound like I'm trying to sell something here) This guy is an inspiration for everyone around him and is doing more than anyone else in his surroundings could ever dream.

Sigma Males aren't "lazy" or "bad" people. They just don't get the attention they deserve.

I'm going to explain the "why" behind Sigma Males, and what you can do to help them... But I'd like you to please keep in mind that everyone has an individual way of being a Sigma Male. You can't just assume that all Sigmies are alike, and try to offer them the same thing. What works for one may not work for another! That's why I'm going to explain everything from my own perspective here.

The first thing you're going to want to do is to get out of their way. This will allow them to succeed on their own terms, without you hindering them.

Here are the six main things that Sigma Males need in order to be successful (some of these can be done, others won't work for everyone... But this is my observation of traits Sigma Males have).

1. Rejection/Ignorance/Being Left Out. Sigma Males usually get ignored or left out by society at large (because they lack confidence or status). This kind of situation (the one where they're being rejected) requires them to find some way to turn it into an advantage. They will usually do this by making themselves the center of attention. They will try to build themselves up so they can be seen as an authority or something, which is what gets them noticed in the first place.

Also, Sigma Males may turn this rejection into a positive thing if it's very extreme or extreme enough. If they're constantly being rejected by women, for example, they might use that as motivation to become better overall... But it can also make them feel completely powerless and out of control over their life. Being ignored is a difficult thing for most people to handle without going crazy.

2. Being Ugly/Not Being Attractive. The funny thing about this is that there's a lot of Alpha Males and other powerful people who aren't attractive. Women can be drawn to them anyway, simply because their presence and/or personality is so dominant that they seem "hot" to the female eye.

3. Being Ugly/Being Weird. It does not just look that count here, but also personality and "energy". Oftentimes, an ugly person with a weird personality will turn out attractive to another person (for example, someone who seems like he has interesting or unconventional ideas).

4. Being Rejected By Women... The Thing Is, women don't automatically find every attractive man to be a hot commodity. So if you're always being rejected by women, then you just need to find a way to make yourself attractive to them (or just learn to live with it).

5. Being  famous sigma males  In Life. Unfortunately, some people just aren't meant for success... It might take some thinking and soul searching to figure out why this is, but it does happen... For example, the mere fact that you're not successful enough yet might mean that you need more time and effort than everyone else.

6. Not Being Appreciated Or Being Ignored By Others. This is related to lack of success, but different enough to get its own category. This one is also about the fact that people aren't paying attention to you, which makes it even more difficult for you to get by (especially if you don't like being ignored).

The main thing to remember in all these situations is that Sigma Males are constantly trying to "do their own thing" in spite of what people think or say about them. If you can understand this, then you're on the right track.

As far as helping Sigma Males, I have a few suggestions. The first one is to try to be supportive when they're doing something that you find interesting or unusual. If they're into talking about something that interests you, then just let them know that you want to know more about it. This will allow them to accept any rejection they might get from the topic since they'll know that there's someone else who's interested in it too (by making them feel known).

Also, avoid judging them for things that seem totally out of the left field. This can be extremely hard to do, but you want to make it easier for them to be themselves. If you won't allow them to do something... They may not be able to accomplish it.

Another thing that will help Sigma Males is to teach or show them things that are completely out of the left field. This may look like a fairly easy thing, but I've found that most Sigma Males are generally scared of experiencing something new or different because they're afraid they'll be rejected by society or abandoned by friends. The thing is, though, if their interests are fairly ridiculous at times... Then they might actually most likely be "cool".

To conclude, my advice for Sigma Males is to realize that the world isn't the same as it was for their peers. They need to work at being different even if it's hard because they'll need all their power and influence in place if they want any chance at success. You can help them by giving them slightly more attention or encouraging them with an occasional yes... But also accept that you might not be able to find friendship with many of these guys... And sometimes it's better to be alone than with the wrong people.